pyarapopat wrote:
str1der wrote:
Yeah - even I have heard the same during the Delhi information session where I separately asked the representative. The point she made was very valid - deadlines are released months in advance. As a good practice, ensure you tell your recommender the deadline is 15th October or something (for Round1 deadline 18th October), gives you a bit of a buffer. I did this, and my recommender didn't submit by noon his time on 15th (I am from India and waited the max I could basis time difference), and so I sent a reminder email. He was utterly apologetic in his reply, and said he will ensure he is more proactive for future applications.
Just saying, waiting till the deadlines for EACH part of your application is not a good practice. Essays should be submitted on the last day maybe, but try and ensure recommenders dont keep you hanging. Cheers!
I would be vary of telling the wrong dates to the recommenders. Sometimes the mail sent by the school asking for recommendations have links to the deadlines, or the recommender might snoop around a little bit. And if they find out that you told them the wrong dates, it might not look very good on your part.
Happened to me for my Ross application.
I understand your point. However, atleast in my case, both my recommenders always asked me to tell them the dates I want them to submit by. For example, they don't really know when Kellogg's deadline is - they don't care and why should they? The points that matter are:
1. Would you recommend me please
2. Ideally if you could submit by XYZ date
Answers to both the questions are typically yes, so you don't really need to get into the detail of there being a lag between submission and deadline. Plus, am unsure if a manager will actually think it was unwise on your part to tell him to submit a day or two earlier. He would have done the same if he was in your place. You do want to keep some buffer - its a time tested good practice.
So I don't really agree with your comment on being wary about telling them 'wrong dates' - you're giving them 'ideal dates' and not deadlines, you're not lying. Even if they specifically ask you for the deadline, its always good to say deadline is X, but would appreciate if you can submit by Y (where Y=x-2) and check and remind on Y+1 If there's a manager who has a problem with that, well ....
Its just about how you approach your overall application process, and within that, how you approach your recommender.