Okay, I know someone said truce, but I am back after a day off the net and feel it's only fair I get to chime in.
First:
Grew up in a trailer court. Only child of a single mom who busted her a$$ on a crappy job and basically raised myself. Am a first generation college grad, and first-ever advanced degree candidate. Many members of my family are uneducated and overweight and eat horrible food. The rest are uneducated, eat horrible food, and have a normal weight, due to good genes and an active lifestyle. There are a couple exceptions, of course. I am certainly not making comments from the penthouse of the Hilton.
Second:
Yes, comments were irreverant. Sorry, I am that way and am putting less effort into being PC than I normally would. And really, life's just more fun when you let it rip sometimes.
Third:
I work with people who make low incomes all day, every day. It's my job. Our economy is a lovely one in many ways, but there are many many people who are getting left in the cold. Incomes among lower wage earners are stagnant or maybe even shrinking when you compare inflation, education costs, and housing. It is DAMNED HARD to get by. I have devoted my life (well, short as it is) to helping people work outside and within the system to surmount the many economic challenges they face. I am the last person to blame the poor folks. It's not my cousin's fault that empty calories of the kind you find in a convenience store are many times cheaper than the whole, non-processed foods most of us made for dinner. When choosing between buying organic and paying the electric bill, which would you pick?
Fourth:
Obviously, there are always exceptions. But as others on this thread pointed out, obesity and poor nutrition are strongly correlated with socio-economic status. I didn't invent that stat. And here's another one: this is the first time in the history of the world that obesity and hunger due to poor nutrition are equally prevalent. Fun, huh? Everyone should go read "The Omnivore's Dilemma" or watch "SuperSize Me" or read "Fastfood Nation." You'll never view those golden arches in the same way again.
Fifth:
Yep, I am an attention whore. You've got that much right. And after teaching aerobics two days a week for 6 months, I am in good shape.
Sixth:
Over half of communication isn't about your words; it's about your tone and various non-verbal cues. I usually try to avoid getting worked up over something like an email when it's so hard to be sure of the person's original intent.