mahkieDon't worry, you aren't alone. I got denied membership as well. Small sample of what I do as guidance for future applicants:
- Free to $(Cover my gas money[read $5, there is a reason I had this miniscule charge])/hr Tutoring for low income college students
- Serve on a non-profit board
- Volunteer 15+hrs/week with local sports association (coaching/refereeing)
I am not a "minority" group (neither race nor gender) so I am not too surprised about not receiving a fellowship, but am about membership. But so it goes.