Hi edge327,
From a key metrics standpoint, your profile is, on the whole, fairly average. Lower GPA with a higher GMAT, etc. HOWEVER, that said, it's your work experience that caught my eye! Before I get into the rest of my response - I don't think your head is in the clouds. On the contrary - I think you're a little too grounded.
Between your family business experiences, ad hoc services/occupations, and variety of other interests/pursuits, you have the makings of what could be a very compelling story. Now, granted, it would have to be done well because otherwise it could look rather all over the place. But, if you could put forward a compelling case that is tied together by a logical progression that is influencing where you are looking to go, you could customize it to a variety of programs. On a side note, you will need to pay closer attention than most on how you play with your recommendations because there will be some restrictions as well as optimal ways to highlight the proper messaging.
It seems to me, and I apologize if this isn't the case, that the list of schools you have put together don't all quite belong together. I understand you are torn in terms of direction as well as rank but I believe there is significant room for improvement in selecting the schools based not only on career and geography, but a host of other considerations.
Without knowing additional detail and having a very candid talk about your profile, where you're headed, and what makes you tick, it would be difficult to recommend some schools. That said, I would love to help you talk through that process.
At the very least, I hope this helps you expand your search and be slightly more aggressive! If you have any questions please don't hesitate to reach out.
Bhavik
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