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Is anyone bringing/did anyone bring their gf/bf/wife/husband to b school with them? I'm attempting to convince my gf to come with me in the fall, though we're both worried I'm going to be incredibly busy all the time.
Yeah, my wife is most likely coming (depends on if she can at least move laterally in her career wherever I go). It's a bit different since we're married... She was a big part of my entire decision process, and has been on board with everything from the beginning... You're in a different situation.
You will be busy, VERY busy. How interested is she in going? If she's on the fence, reach out to Ross's partners club and have them sell her on it (Fuqua and Johnson did wonders on my wife).
Ok, going to be a bit real here...
Is she going to be able to find a job? The toughest part for partners moving is that they're in their mid 20s to early 30s, and are building a career of their own... If she's able to continue hers in Ann Arbor, great, if not... will she resent you?
How serious are you about committing long term to her? Maybe you should officially commit? You never know if thats part of what she's apprehensive about(assumption i know, i dont know her)...
If your girlfriend doesnt come, she will miss a HUGE part of your life... B-school will change you. These will be some of the greatest experiences of your life, and if she's not there to experience some of them with you... it'll be hard to relate (at least that's a fear of mine) BUT if she does come, she'll need to know that:
A - you will be VERY busy, VERY VERY busy
B - she will need to develop a group of friends there, (knowing that she can through a partners club will help.)
C - you will be VERY busy
If she doesn't fully understand this before hand, she'll resent the entire situation.
Good luck, sorry for being a bit drastic... There's no easy answer. But if she's honestly considering coming, reach out to the partners club, and try to connect with local alumns or current students who can relate to your future situation.