Part V of VFinal WordsAfter four parts and over 4,000 words, I have reached the finale of my five-part essay. You have probably been wondering why I wrote this incredibly long essay to begin with. In most cases, I would have started by enumerating the reasons why I decided to share such a long composition. But I wanted you to read through each part of the essay first and then decide if you wanted to come back to read the succeeding parts. To be completely transparent, I wanted to keep the purpose of the thread vague for as long as possible in order to maximize the number of people who would end up reading this story. In addition, I wanted only you, a captive audience, to get to this part, hopefully motivated enough to share your own worries and/or triumphs.
This is my debrief. My adventure spanned from September 2010, when I scheduled my GMAT, through January 2012, the last application deadline for which I had to anxiously wait. 17 months and two application cycles later, I have come out of this with an acceptance from my #1 school and then some. It was a long and difficult journey – one that I was not sure would end well. But it all worked out in the end.
I learned a lot of things throughout this entire process.
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You are never too old to start wanting something new so badly. I think that putting these applications together has been the hardest that I have ever worked. When I decided that it was the right time to go for my MBA, I don’t think I was totally convinced that I would actually do it. By the time I had selected all the schools to which I would apply, I was 100% dedicated to getting in. You never really know how much you want something until you take that first step and commit to doing it. It was refreshing to want something so bad again after a few years of just going through the motions at work, even though I like what I do.
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The application process in itself is a learning experience. A lot of people say that this entire process is all about learning how to bullsh!t. At first, I felt the same way. After months of reflecting and learning more about what my real passion is, I realized that this very introspective process allows you to identify your strengths and weaknesses, priorities in life, the mistakes that you have made in the past that have helped you become a better person, the achievements that did not seem very impressive at first glance but were actually extraordinary, etc. If you go through this practice as genuinely as you can, you will learn a lot even before you go to business school. And you will be prepared for the academics, social events, and most importantly, recruiting.
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Hard work pays off. Seeing the fruits of my labor has inspired me to never be as lazy (academically, that is) as I was in college, which is why I ended up with my GPA anyway. This experience has definitely proven to me that if you work hard enough, you can overcome major weaknesses. I hope that others have had a similar experience or will go through such a trying but rewarding process.
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It gets harder. I remember studying for the GMAT and thinking to myself that all I needed to do was get through the test and then everything would be easy. And then I started writing my essays and decided that it would be the hardest part of the application process. And then I submitted my applications and was a nervous wreck while waiting for interview invitations. And then I had to worry about acing my interviews. And then I had to keep from pulling all my hair out while waiting for the results. Now that I have been admitted, I am glad that I know where I want to go, but I have to get all my documents submitted and start thinking about moving all of my belongings from the Northeast down to the South. And once school starts, I am sure recruiting will be like the MBA application process all over again. And so, I just need to remind myself every single day that it gets harder.
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Being collaborative is infectious. When I decided to apply to business school, I knew that it would be very competitive. When I found GMAT Club, I questioned whether people on these boards genuinely want each other to succeed. After reading posts encouraging others to keep their heads up or giving them advice on how to successfully get off of the waitlist or what interview questions to prepare for, I decided that I wanted to be a part of this community. It has been a blast working with such competent and collaborative individuals, and I hope more people join this community.
This is an open invitation.I would like to thank the GMATClub community for being an amazing resource as I was going through the application experience. There were certain posts that got me so nervous, but knowing that I was not the only person going through this whole experience was comforting as well.
There are a couple of low GPA/GMAT success stories threads that exist on these boards, but there is no thread that also covers the not-so successful stories, which in my opinion should offer as much value to the applicants as the success stories do. While the success stories give you confidence, the stories about the challenges that the Third Quadrant Applicants (TQA) go through keep you grounded and inform you of what to avoid doing. After all, TQA’s are already at a disadvantage, so it is crucial for them to avoid giving the AdCom any additional reasons to reject them.
If you are a Third Quadrant Applicant [or even a Second (below 700 GMAT) or Fourth (below 3.0 uGPA)], do not let the ridiculously high GMAT scores and GPA’s intimidate you. This is a support community for all MBA applicants, not just for those with already incredible stats. If anything, those who have below average stats are the ones who should be on here more than those with higher stats. Based on the kudos and the private messages that I have received, there are a lot of us who are already a part of this community. And so, I invite you to post about your experience here so that future Third Quadrant Applicants may learn a thing or two about how to successfully get into their dream schools. Please don’t be shy.
Good luck; and I hope that all of you achieve your goals!
P.S. I really hope I did not bore you with my rambling.