From what I read from a book I am currently referring to:
We should use "between" when we are talking about distinct, and discrete items.
On the other hand, we use "among" when we are talking about things that aren't distinct items or individuals; "among" is used when the connections are more collective.
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Sally had to choose between the red and white dresses.
Let’s keep this secret between you and me.
However, between can also be used when talking about a distinct relationship of more than two individual items, groups, or people
Examples:
Johnny had to decide between going to Europe, buying a new car, or staying in college.
Business negotiations between the governments of the United States, China and South America are going well despite cultural differences.
Can someone please explain why the examples above ( in bold ) are correct ? shouldnt among be used here ?
As mentioned above, "among" cannot be used because we are talking about "distinct" things (example: governments of the United States, China and South America). However, "among" would be used in this scenario:
Among the Asian countries, China has the strongest economy.
Here, "Asian countries" is used as a "collective" and so, "among" is used.