VantagePointMelody
Hi there,
Thanks for sharing your candid thoughts and concerns around pursuing an MBA. I think a lot of folks don’t give enough attention (or if they do, it’s privately) to the points you raised so bravo

Before you get hung up on the specifics of which schools you could get into, I would urge you to think about why you’re pursuing an MBA in the first place. An MBA is a time-consuming and expensive endeavor so it needs to be part of the journey towards something you want vs. simply moving away from something you don’t want (i.e. your current job). Getting an MBA should be a strategic decision, not a transactional one. So getting really honest with yourself, doing some research, speaking with mentors/friends/your wife, etc. about what you want to do with your career moving forward is a great place to start. What are you good at? What do you enjoy doing? What are you passionate about? How do you see yourself making an impact? Then you can assess if an MBA makes sense to get you there better and faster. While your motivations may be driven by a higher paycheck it needs to be about more than just money (for the purposes of your applications, at the very least).
Once (and if) you’ve decided that an MBA is right for you and why, you're absolutely right to bring your personal life into consideration. It’s not “crazy” to enroll in a full-time MBA program as a parent but it will require sacrifice and discipline. (Every top MBA program will include a handful of mothers and fathers; I went to Columbia Business School and one of my classmates was the father of newborn twins, for example, so it’s doable but he would never say it was easy.) Ultimately, that’s a decision that only you and your family can make based on what's right for y'all.
So getting down to the specific schools – there’s a lot to like about your profile. Your non-profit background and senior leadership position will definitely help you differentiate yourself. Your undergrad GPA is slightly below average for the top schools but with a great GMAT score, you could help mitigate that. What’s going to be most important, though, will be your story – who you are, what you achieved in your career so far, why you’re pursuing an MBA, exactly how you will use your MBA to do great things in the future, etc. With some killer essays, you very well could have a shot at the top programs. Now whether you aim for the top programs or keep your focus local to the DC area will depend on what you and your family decide is best on a personal level and what you’re hoping to do after graduation professionally. If your target industry/companies recruit actively at Georgetown, for example, and you’re committed to staying near home post-MBA, then Georgetown seems like a great fit. On the other hand, if you want to maintain the optionality of the top 10 schools and you and your family are open to moving, then you should give them a shot.
Anyways, I hope this was helpful in giving you some more things to consider and think about. I realize I didn’t give you any black & white answers but the decision to pursue an MBA and where is anything but formulaic. Best of luck!
Kindly,
Melody
Thanks so much Melody.
This isn't just a whim or a desire to make more money.
I interact with friends in consulting and banking all the time and think, "I am a lot more interested in the nitty gritty of your job than you are." Same with higher-level business folks I speak to, who I think appreciate how well-versed I am in what they do, but would never hire me because they think of me as a "philanthropy guy". I love reading the financial press. So I'll really enjoy it.
I'm not really sure what I want to do post-MBA. As much as consulting and banking seem interesting, I couldn't justify the hours or the travel. So an internal strategy or corporate finance role sounds good. Or, with an MBA, I could call friends in vc and maybe they'd see me as someone worth hiring or placing in one of their companies.
My preference is definitely to be in DC after school.
Even given that I'm not gunning for Goldman or McKinsey, I still think an elite program tops Georgetown and makes it worthwhile to move. But I'm clueless about how it impacts recruitment. Maybe you know?
Take a DC-based company like Capital One or Marriott. They probably have more Georgetown MBAs than Wharton MBAs. I'm still betting that my chances of getting a job and rising the ranks -- or switching to a different firm -- are better if I went to Wharton. Do you agree?
You're welcome!! It sounds like at this stage, you're considering a number of good options for what you might want to do post-MBA and next steps would be to start going deeper in your research and truly understanding what those jobs entail, the pros and cons, how they align with your skillset, etc. Although it's OK not to know yet exactly what you want to do after business school (a lot of folks don't know at this stage of the game), you will want to get a lot more specific in terms of the "what" and "why" by the time you start writing your essays. (For what it's worth, that's one of the key aspects of the application process that I coach and guide my clients through).
Re: your question about how recruitment differs between top 10 and non-top 10, you'll generally have a greater diversity of options as well as greater access to name brand firms with a top 10 program. You can still focus your recruiting on job opportunities in the DC area even if you don't go to school there. But you never know, you may find yourself attracted to a whole new world of options. (I think every MBA student finds him-or-herself considering options they had never thought of before during recruiting.)
To your next point, yes, I suspect you're right that you will have a greater chance at getting an offer at a company like Capital One or Marriott with a Wharton MBA vs. Georgetown, all things being equal. However, that's where the advantage would end (bear with me!) Once you're there, your performance will have to carry you. The fact that you have a Wharton vs. Georgetown MBA won't earn you faster promotions or higher pay. Where the greater value of the Wharton MBA will really come into play is if/when you're looking to change jobs. That's when you'll really leverage to strength and breadth of the alumni network. And that's a powerful tool.