bravas
Thanks again, I appreciate that.
Agreed on Kellogg, didn't mean to imply I could waltz in, I guess I meant I'd focus there for Chicago since Booth already denied me. Would take gmat again, but would really need to bear down on quant, a decent increase there could really boost things.
Have lost some sleep over this... you don't think it's a one bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, situation? I mean imagine I wait a year, at a job I dislike quite a lot, spend 100to150k extra, go to somewhere like ross, and at the end of the program get a job with say, amazon? Well hell, I could totally accomplish that at carey. So what would be the reason to wait a year and spend a whole lot more? Possibility at MBB? Shot at Wall street? Even at t10 only the best and brightest are going there. The biggest reason would seem to be prestige... which I have to admit is certainly alluring (that's why I'm posting all this and struggling)...but that prestige might hurt a bit when I'm shelling out 1500/month in loan payments for the following 10 years. And the freedom from debt makes starting my own business that much more feasible (something I'd eventually like to do).
No one thinks that Carey is on the rise though? They plan on continuing the full tuition scholarship for all full time students, had a lower acceptance rate than Harvard this year, revamping the whole curriculum. Again, imagine I turn down the offer, wait another year, and in two or three years Carey is a t20 (who knows!) That's a could a shoulda woulda too.
I can't help but feel Carey is worth a shot...if I hate it then I hate it and re-evaluate, lost time either way, and not losing much money. And hey, maybe I'll love it.
It seems to me you are convincing yourself that you should do Carey even though it's not what you want deep down and I do understand the appeal of no tuition.
I think Ross is an excellent choice. If you're looking for the Mid-West then Kelley would also be an excellent and very affordable choice. Notre Dame is also right at that top 25 area. If you're not looking for Wall Street or McKinsey then you really don't need to go to a top 10 school.
It would also be very unwise to preclude a program because it was not in a large city. At these top 30/25 schools you have brand recognition that should travel fairly well, you will be in especially good shape if you go to a school in the Mid-West where it seems you want to stay. Who knows, you may find after two years you like living in a less densely populated area. A good idea would be to find out what companies recruit at some of these schools in smaller population areas. I think you'll find these top 30 schools have companies from nearby cities taking lots of graduates every year. It's usually more difficult to find a good job outside of a city.
My two cents. Good luck!